Hand in the Sand

Putting the POWER back into female empowerment!



AND make betteR choices!



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Grow Some Labia! Is a place for women who want to reclaim their power and find their voice in a culture that’s often hostile to egalitarianism and a truly empowered feminism.

This is for those who believe in personal responsibility, owning your issues, and recognizing when you’re the one holding yourself back. And who want to change.

We've spent enough time analyzing the effect of 'the patriarchy' on women and how it holds us back; now let's talk about what we're doing to ourselves back. I blog on Vocal.Media and here about the limitations of today's victim narrative-centered feminism. 
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Physicist Richard Feynmann was almost always the smartest guy in the room and one of the most brilliant minds to come out of modern physics. We lost him way too soon at 69. He wasn't afraid to learn anything - including how to talk to and interact with women. He married a beautiful one, too.
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The Manifesto...

Where Do I start?

My Mother Taught Me Never To Tolerate Abuse

And you don't have to, either

Why I Don't Take Crap From Partners​

My mother called Marisol ‘a doormat’ because she tolerated verbal abuse. I learned never to be one.

Why I 'Scream Into The Void' About Growing Some Labia
Why is there a dearth of research on the psychology of female victimhood?

Photo by Brooke Lark on Unsplash