Hand in the Sand

Putting the POWER back into female empowerment!


Because big girls make better choices


Grow Some Labia! Is a place for women who want to reclaim their power and find their voice in a culture that’s often hostile to egalitarianism and a truly empowered feminism.
This is for those who believe in personal responsibility, owning your issues, and recognizing when you’re the one holding yourself back. And who want to change.
We've spent enough time analyzing the effect of 'the patriarchy' on women and how it holds us back; now let's talk about what we're doing to ourselves back. I blog on Medium and here about the limitations of today's victim narrative-centered feminism. 
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The Manifesto...

My Mother taught me never to tolerate abuse

And you don't have to, either

why I don't take crap from partners​

My mother called Marisol ‘a doormat’ because she tolerated verbal abuse. I learned never to be one.

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Where Do I start?



Toronto, Ontario​​


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